Ways To Pick Up Ladies - Mixed Responses And Flirting

When we are referring to the subject of "picking up women." I often get asked what to do to "pick up women", or just "how to pick up women".

I not long ago got asked the question: "Why do females flirt with you and when you flirt back they snub it? It's so confusing!!!" I thought it was wonderful and important enough to share.

First of all, women have different characters. What is being mentioned here is a kind of personality, not all women in general. The personality type that typically does this kind of actions is a little insecure. They are testing the water, but they don't just want to jump in.

The best way to handle this personality type is when you notice it is not to react, not to take the bait so to talk. Let the girl flirt all she wants, let her take the lead. Let her manage how the romance goes. If you don't react, she will get comfortable with you and steepen the gradient progressively. If you react (flirt back) she will usually run away.

Issue is, however, people with equal or compatible personalities often hang out together. So sometimes you can get the feeling that the whole world is in one direction, when in fact it may be only a certain percentage of humans who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, change your environment. Go to a different place, meet different people in different environments and perhaps you will find out different personality types and perhaps one that is more suitable for you.

Now having said that, let's observe it from a different angle. Women in general love flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt because they are interested in a woman. Ladies will flirt to see if they get a response, to find if they are looking good and are desirable, even when they are not serious about a man. They will flirt with a man they are only interested in being friends with.

One solution to get better control of these situations is to check out all the communication mediums that a woman is making use of to communicate - Like verbal, emotional, physical, mental, and sexual communications.

When a girl likes you she is likely to communicate that she likes you through all of the communications channels. When she is just playing around she will give you confusing communications. So when you find a woman flirting with you, but she does not support the flirting by showing you she likes you across ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation seriously.

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